Our house is
a maze of brown cardboard boxes at the moment, with our big move so imminent,
so I am letting my mind drift to prettier places. One where you can find everything you need and life is tranquil. Much like this photo I took at the Langham actually.
Back in 2010
when I started my blog, I chose the pink background colour which I still love
today. It was a pink that wasn’t too
babyish, but a blush pink with a touch of sophistication and a tiny bit of a
hard edge. Maybe there is a dash of
black in it? Anyway, I love this pink so
much that I found out the official Hex code of it: #ffd3cc. I imagined losing that pink colour and never
being able to find it again, so having the code makes me feel safe :) If you copy and paste that hashtag and six
digits into Google ‘my’ pink will come up.
Not only is it on my blog, but it is also the background colour on my
laptop.
Then, when
my husband and I started staycationing at the Langham Hotel in Auckland once or
twice a year, I saw that their trademark pink touches were almost the same
shade. I love that they pair theirs with
gold, which is particularly French to me as I have seen photos of beauty
therapy boutiques and perfumiers decorated in pink and gold.
I have also
heard that the Ritz Paris has the walls in their rooms painted in a soft blush
pink because it throws a flattering light onto your skin. I don’t know if they still do that but I’ve
always remembered the detail because it sounds so lovely. Sheets in a delicate blush pink would be
delightful too, and excellent for love and romance Feng Shui in the bedroom.
Having pink
on the mind led me to intentionally cultivating more pink touches in my life,
because it has such an uplifting and beautifying effect on me. Even if you are a self-proclaimed ‘not a pink
person’, surely the sight of a bouquet of pink roses can’t fail to have an
instinctive effect on your happiness?
To bring
more pink into my life, in a man-friendly way, I brainstormed how I would love
to do that.
May I share
with you some petite ways to enjoy a feminine touch of pink without
demasculinising your home so much that your husband feels like he is living in
Barbara Cartland’s boudoir:
- Pale
pink bar soap in the shower
- Soft
bath towels and face flannels (inspired by Aurora’s comment on my post two
weeks ago The Essence of a Luxurious Life on a Budget)
- A
luxurious pink bathrobe
- Divinely
soft pink scuff slippers
- New
pyjamas or a nightdress in a becoming shade of pink
- Lingerie
in pale or blush pink
- Pens
- I use pens picked up at the Langham Hotel, pink with a gold print on, the ink
is a normal colour though!
- Pink
writing paper and stationery
- Pretty
satin coathangers
- Pretty
and feminine journals to write in
- A
rose or other flower in a bud vase
- Having
a floral cup and saucer or ultra-feminine mug to drink your tea from
I bought a
pair of new-looking floral Kew Garden cups from the opshop for $2 each a few
weeks ago. A whizz through the
dishwasher and they are ‘new to us’. I
thought it would just be me using them because they are festooned with pretty
flowers in soft colours, but my husband often chooses them when making us a tea. I think guys can appreciate feminine touches –
mine often says how he loves all the small details I bring to our home, such as
lighting candles every night etc.
Even music
can have a colour – when I play spa music softly in my bedroom at night while I
am washing my face and having quiet time before bed, it has a soothing pink quality. I know that sounds strange, but I think you
know what I mean.
Imagine how
nice feminine loungewear would in soft shades of rose too – the kind of clothes
you change into for the evening – they aren’t quite public clothes but not
pyjamas either. Currently my loungewear
is clingy black leggings and either a grey marle slouchy fine knit top or a black
and white striped sweatshirt. It appeals
to replace items as needed in softer more feminine colours.
If ‘pink’
turns you off, consider seashell, blush, rose, peony, fuchsia, cerise, lavender,
lilac, petal, mauve or any other nuance of an accent colour that you could
intentionally add more of into your life as your feminine touchstone. Choose a soft colour that makes your heart
happy and, when you need something, why not choose that colour if it is
available?
It doesn’t
even need to be in the pink/purple range.
Another colour I adore and think is delightfully feminine is pale
seaglass blue/green; this would be another beautiful shade to use as your
feminine accent colour. The light
coloured packaging of Estee Lauder products is the exact shade. I have saved a small sample box flattened out
as inspiration.
Take a look
at brands you are drawn to and see what their colours are. Borrow them if they make you feel happy. Companies spend a lot of money with colour
specialists coming up with their brand’s look and feel, and a big part of that
is colour.
I read that
Estee Lauder herself originally chose a soft blue/green shade for her jars and
gold lids, because she thought that combination would be pretty in most womens
bathrooms.
How do you
feel about pink, or perhaps you might have a different feminine accent colour
that you love? I’d also be grateful if
you could share your ideas on other ways to introduce small feminine touches
into your life.
Wishing you
a delightfully rosy weekend!
Fiona