I’ve been reading more than I’ve been
writing lately. Sometimes thoughts and
writing flow easily, and other times they don’t. Right now, my greatest pleasure is continuing
with a book I’m enjoying, fiction or not.
When I’m somewhere, at work, out supermarketing or whatever, I think to
myself how excited I will be to climb into bed later on that night with my
book! It’s the simple pleasures don't you think?
The title I ordered from Abe Books after my
no-spend February was 1985 published Estee:
A Success Story by Estee Lauder.
I’ve borrowed it a number of times from various libraries over the
years, and the most recent time I borrowed it realised I would love it for my
home library.
I could read about cosmetics, fragrance and
living beautifully all day, and this book has all of that, but it also has a
business angle showing Mrs Lauder’s tenacious ways to get ahead socially and
financially.
I might not be as hungry as her but I find
her relentless self-propulsion very motivating to be organised at work and
shape my lifestyle to be the best and loveliest it can be.
Here are some of my favourite quotes from
her book.
--
Rose
Kennedy once told me that good luck is something you make and bad luck is
something you endure, a very wise observation indeed.
--
There
wasn’t a minute of any day when I didn’t look as pretty as I knew how to make
myself. It was a matter of pride to me;
it was a matter of self-respect. There
is no reason every to look sloppy because it takes so little time to look
wonderful.
--
I
dressed as the wealthy women did, as elegantly as I knew how. In my day there were no courses on dressing
for success, but I knew I had to look my best to sell my best.
--
Packaging
requires special thought. You can make a
thing wonderful by its outward appearance.
--
Being
a perfectionist and providing quality is the only way to do business.
--
I
needed a special kind of salesperson.
She had to look wonderful herself.
She had to use my products and sell their effectiveness by example. I was not out to fool the customer. No-one could tell her, and make her believe,
that a certain cream could make her sexy, brilliant or rich. What a cream could do was to make her clean,
pretty and confident. That was the
truth. Confidence breeds beauty.
The
spokespeople for my products would always have to be smiling, pretty and
confident; very elegant, very soft and very fine. I needed my counter attended by alert,
interested, eager young women. She has
to be a walking advertisement. She can’t
oversell – no women ever appreciates being sold more than she needs.
Actually,
the saleswoman’s job was not to sell, but to let women buy. She had to respect the customer. She had to know the product and believe in
it. She had to know how to use it and
what one could realistically expect from it.
Most of all, she had to convince the customer to try it on, as she would
a dress or hat. Then, and only then,
would she make her sale.
( I adore this description of her ideal saleswoman. I want to be 'very elegant, very soft and very fine'. That sounds like a wonderful way to be to me!)
--
I
always spent my money on one or two elegant outfits, which I wore everywhere,
rather than on a whole wardrobe of mediocre clothes. One had to look finished to sell a fine
product.
--
When
speaking with customers, use your imagination, use your nicest manner. Tell the truth always. Never sell what a customer doesn’t want or
need.
--
It
wasn’t youth that make me so energetic, it was enthusiasm. That’s why I know a woman of any age has it within
her to begin a business or a life’s worth of any sort. It’s a fresh outlook that makes youth so
attractive anyway, that quality of ‘anything’s possible’. That spirit is not only owned by those under
thirty. Selling, especially, is an art
form that depends on spirit – and honesty.
The customer can always tell when you’re being less than candid.
--
If
you don’t do important things when you think of them, you probably never will
and may lose out.
--
If
Elizabeth Arden’s claim to fame was pink and Revlon’s was sexiness, mine was, I
hoped, elegance.
--
Fiona those are wonderful quotes. I particularly like the one about luck....as an avid reader I am always looking for suggestions. I will see if the library has a copy of this one.
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Fiona, thank you for a wonderful post, I really enjoyed all the quotas. Actually I want to run and get this book right away.
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Maria
thank you fiona for posting some of your favorite quotes from the book. i really can relate to a few of her quotes, esp about selling beauty products. that is the main push in any spa...selling the products and sometimes i think the mgmt goes about it all wrong. i think being a good example speaks volumes and sells more than any promotion they may be pushing. it's a frustrating part of my job and i'm tempted to pass these quotes onto the owners of my spa! hope you are well. x
ReplyDeleteThank you for including these quotes. They are really interesting and I just checked to see if my library has a copy, and they do! I look forward to reading this.
ReplyDeleteI've been reading like crazy this year as well. In fact, I put a reading list on my blog to keep track of what / how many books I've consumed. I look forward to reading a bit of fiction when I get into bed at night. I save non-fiction for the mornings when I'm having my first cup of coffee. It seems to kick-start the brain!
ReplyDeleteLove the Estee quotes, Fiona. So true. What a lady! Thanks for sharing that book; I'm going to buy it as I had not heard of it. I saw Estee in person once in a Bergdorf Goodman store in New York City. I was standing at a cosmetics checkout counter and the saleslady at the counter smiled and tapped me on the arm and pointed downward on the counter to the name on a credit card that said, "Estee Lauder." At first I didn't realize it was thee Estee Lauder. And then I saw her come up to the counter and I knew it was indeed Estee Lauder! Too fun. I like Aerin Lauder's new book too. She's so beautiful and talented. Hope you have a wonderfully restful and beautiful continued reading session! (And a piece of very good chocolate to go with it.) :)
ReplyDeleteGreat post Fiona, my favourite is the one in which she says she spent her money on one or two elegant outfits rather than many mediocre ones. What great advice and so in line with minimalism. Thankyou for sharing. thefifthcygnet.blogspot.com
ReplyDeleteI, too, love reading, and I always think a book is worth it if I can glean even one good suggestion to apply to my life. I'm sure this book esp. was helpful for you with your business. Wouldn't we all love to be walking advertisements for elegance, softness, and beauty? Thanks for the post Fiona.
ReplyDeleteFiona, I bought Estee Lauder's book and have finished reading it; thanks for sharing it on your blog. I absolutely loved this book! What an amazing entrepreneurial story and fascinating woman with her business persistence and beautiful style panache. Blessings in New Zealand where you too live chic.
ReplyDeleteHi Kathryn, I'm glad you loved the book too. I think Mrs Lauder's success principles apply to any business type and not just beauty or retail. I believe they would also be helpful to someone as an employee or stay-at-home-wife/mother.
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